This question often plague me…. how much do we understand about each other?
Every time we get into a ‘catfight’, the same question will hover over me, sometimes for days!
At time I asked myself, is he the right one (eerr… too late to ask?) or I wonder am I the right one for him. We are definitely from a different world… no doubt about that. I’m an extrovert, he’s an introvert. I loves to have many friends and make friends easily but he tried not to make any or be friendly. Weird?
But…but… it was not like that at all during the courtship days!
After marriage, we tend to bicker on the tiniest thing… for what? I have no idea. Do men find arguments fun?
Seems like the romance is gone after the baby arrives… imagine if I were to have a few more… probably I’ll have to seek solace in the mental health hospital….. aaarrgghhh!
*sigh* *sigh*
July 29th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
we also used to bicker over little things. we still do but in the past 2 years, i’ve learn to let go more. I think i’ve sort of accepted the fact that i lived my life as a couple and wanted him to be the ‘dream’ husband. but you know what, we are totally different creatures. I even read John Gray’s books, mind you. And now armed with two kids, i only let out the nagging bomb lesser compared with last time. perhaps it’s a sign of age and wanting to be more at peace with myself.
July 29th, 2008 at 4:38 pm
I already read this book! Awesome but still don’t have boyfriend yet~
Sigh~
July 29th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
hi 5! welcome to the family
July 30th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
hey, dont feel sad.. for me, i want to argue with him also not possible anymore, how i wish i could..now he is no more here, its like sound of silence..so..do appreciate what u hv now, try to look into his goodness instead of weaknesses, for eg what makes yr heart beat fast last time?
one last thing, it is always opposite poles that attract…
July 30th, 2008 at 9:11 pm
“What do u think about my new watch? Leave your comment in that post dear! :)”
Still remembered when argued with my 1st-ever-love (I am single now). Its like I am from Utarid, he from don’t know where.. ha3~
July 30th, 2008 at 11:40 pm
I think all humans are like that… when they have it, they take it for granted and when they lose it they will regret… *sigh*
Ok, glad to say that we managed to sort out and we are at peace now….
Thanks all for your kind comments and I apologize for not replying to all your comments… still not in the mood… *bleh~*
July 31st, 2008 at 12:12 am
he3~
its ok sis…
thanks 4 drop in my blog!
comment at the pic lolz..
he3~
August 1st, 2008 at 10:00 pm
Hey…I’ve been getting these moods lately too. Keep your chin up! Do find something else to occupy your mind.
I’m thinking it’s the pressure of both focused on only one thing e.g. they on work, us on family lor. We ARE in different worlds now.
August 4th, 2008 at 11:10 am
The romance does somewhat fizzles out after kids. It’s true, at least for me too. Everything is so focused on the kids these days *sigh* but the good thing is we are able to talk. I believe that’s what keeps us going