Tell me which woman don’t ngam-ngam cham-cham (babble)??? Tell me which child don’t strew toys all over the place and make the house a huge mess?
I am super pissed this morning when hubby said I too ngam-cham becaused I asked him why he never wash the kitchen towel immediately after use as the stain from the curry he is cooking is seeping into the cloth.
Then my boy was looking for his toys and only did I realized the hubby has threw them away (saw him packing some of the toys yesterday but did not suspect anything then) after we tried looking for it high and low but still can’t find. I was so pissed that I told him “I am sooooo angry now and you still watch the TV!” and I switched off the TV he was watching and asked him to search and he just shouted back saying “I don’t know! Threw away already!” ggggrrrrrrrrrrr!
This made me very mad! He hardly spend time with our boy and he know nuts about what the boy will play during the day when the he is at work. Really blew my top this time!
He complaint that I spent too much time at the PC but who is the one who sit in front of the PC the moment he’s home from work? I can’t say him or he will starts arguing again.
In a day (weekdays) the max amount of hours he spend with our boy is 1 hour (most of the time is less than 30 mins), in the room before bed time. If I failed to go up on time, he will sleep and leave our boy playing by himself or asked our boy to go out.
Sometimes I wonder if I should just take my boy and walk out of the house! Geram-nya!
July 26th, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Relax dear~
Sometimes man acted like that~
My dad sometimes like that…
he3~
Luckily he is a teacher
July 26th, 2008 at 8:41 pm
Hey it’s good you have this blog to rant. Sometimes, we just need some place to vent and then it’s over & forgotten. You knowlah, M-E-N!!!
*Hugs* It’s not easy being SAHM and perhaps you just need a well deserved break. Any chance of leaving Darrius with your parents?
July 26th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Thanks Zara and IMM…. so geram still… *bleh~*
July 26th, 2008 at 10:33 pm
hi..i like to read yr blog..can we exchange links? i will do so when i get yr approval.. thanks…
July 27th, 2008 at 9:54 pm
ok thanks for adding me..i hv added u under housewife.. haha.. sounds kind of homely type of blog..
July 29th, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Still geram lol?
Eat some ice cream or ABC or Blended Corn…
Cold…
he3~
August 1st, 2008 at 10:21 pm
Yikes…what’s going on? Cool down, cool down. Try to find a time when both of you can discuss about all these issues - time at the PC, messy house, spending time with Darrius.
If not by talking, try emailing. I think I’m like your Hubby - I’m really good at ignoring him and he gets *so* mad when I do that.
I just get so tired from quarreling you know, esp since it’s bad for Lucas. Previously, I’d scream and yell too.
Now, if he’s talking a lot of nonsense which I don’t agree with, I just keep quiet and leave the room. I’ll either do something with Lucas, blog (which he kind of dislikes earlier but not now) or go to sleep.
It’d be really great if someone could take care of Darrius for you - I think you need a break. Don’t know if a few hours of preschool or playgroup is OK?
*Hugs* to you - wish I was in Penang so we could come out and ngam ngam cham cham together