My boy will turn 3 soon and we still don’t have much luck at being a second time parents…
What make things worst is, blogging and reading some mommies’ blogs which posted on news that they were expecting… with an unplanned child. Reading all these has some how made the pressure mounting on my side. We have been trying and nothing seems to happen and I am actually sick of trying… 
So daunting isn’t it? Why it is so easy for some (who don’t want any) and so tough for us (those who really wanted it)??
With Chinese New Year coming, we will be expecting more of ‘when are you going to have a second child?’ questions coming from relatives. I know we can’t avoid it but since the Almighty won’t want to grant us any, there’s nothing we can do… just hope for the best I guess…
October 30th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
Sometimes these things can be unexpected one. Don’t think about it. I’ve read many stories when the couples stop harbouring such thoughts they get wonderful surprise. Relatives are usually like these. They will never stop, mind you. Even now they will also say when is no 3 coming. It’s irritating you know. But I’ve learnt to laugh it off and ask them to go have another one too.
Take this as an opportunity to have great sex, without protection..lol joking joking…hehehe
November 1st, 2008 at 12:23 am
Hehehe… Thanks SpyMama for the encouraging words…
Too stressed up lar… me with the boy and hubby with the job.